If you’ve been feeling a little lost…This might be why


Hey Reader,

Have you ever looked around at your life - the job, the schedule, the relationships - and thought:
​"I have so much to be grateful for…why do I feel so off?"

If that’s you right now, you're not alone.

A lot of women, especially high-functioning, thoughtful, get-it-done women are quietly carrying a deep, unspoken question:

Who am I right now?

Not the role you play at work.
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Not the version of you your family depends on.
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Not the reliable one, or the productive one, or the one who holds it all together.

But the you underneath all of that.
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The you that maybe hasn’t had much space lately.

We don’t talk about it much, but identity loss is real. Especially for women who’ve spent years living for the next milestone, for other people’s approval, or just trying to make everything work.

And it doesn’t happen all at once.
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It’s slow. Subtle. Silent.

  • You start saying “I’m fine” when you’re not. (🙋 GUILTY!)
  • You stop doing the things that light you up because they feel optional.
  • You catch yourself thinking, I just need to get through this week...every. single. week.

Here’s what I want you to know: You’re not broken. You’re buried.​
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And the real you? She’s not gone. She’s just waiting for your attention again.

That’s where self-leadership begins. Not in more hustle, or fixing, or doing more.
But in the quiet decision to stop disappearing into the roles you’ve been playing.

If this hits close to home, join us for our Friday Reset, our free weekly coaching session. Or join us for our upcoming 6-week Self-Leadership Blueprint program.

These are spaces we're creating to breathe, reflect, connect and reset so that you can live a life that feels as good as it looks.

Because when you start to reconnect with who you are beyond what you do, everything shifts.

See you soon,

Kelly Berry
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Strategic Leader, Coach and Podcaster

​https://www.kellyberry.info/​

🖊️ (New!) This Week’s Journal Prompt:

Who am I trying to be for everyone else and what part of me is getting lost in the process?

Write it out. Even just a few lines. There’s clarity in the noticing.

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